Why motivation rises, falls, and how to work with it instead of against it
Motivation is often described as a mysterious force, something we either “have” or “don’t have.” But modern research paints a different picture. Motivation is not a personality trait or a moral failing. It is a biological and psychological process shaped by energy levels, habits, emotions, and context.
Understanding how motivation actually works can make behavior change feel less impossible, less self blaming, and far more human.
Motivation is not constant
We tend to think motivation should feel like a steady stream of drive and focus. In reality, motivation naturally fluctuates throughout the day and throughout life.
Research in behavioral psychology shows that motivation is dynamic and sensitive to:
- Sleep and energy levels
- Stress
- How rewarding or difficult a task feels
- How meaningful something seems
- Past experiences with success or struggle
So when motivation dips, it is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of being human.
Dopamine: the brain’s anticipation signal
Dopamine is often called the “pleasure chemical,” but research from neuroscience labs shows this isn’t accurate. Dopamine is less about pleasure and more about anticipation and motivation. It increases when you expect a reward, not just when you experience it.
This means:
- You feel motivated when you can visualize the reward
- You feel unmotivated when the reward feels distant or unclear
- Small wins release dopamine, which builds momentum for bigger wins
This is why tasks feel easier once you start, the brain gets a hit of dopamine simply from progress.
Motivation grows from action, not the other way around
One of the most helpful findings from psychological research is that motivation often follows action, not the other way around.
Once you begin:
- Brain activity increases in areas linked to focus
- The task feels less overwhelming
- Your confidence grows
- Dopamine reinforces the behavior
This is known as the “action precedes motivation” principle.
It is why doing something for two minutes can spark the motivation to keep going.
Why motivation disappears
When people feel chronically unmotivated, there are usually identifiable reasons, not personal flaws.
Common causes include:
1. Burnout
Exhaustion lowers the brain’s ability to feel reward or anticipation.
2. Too many simultaneous goals
Cognitive load makes the brain freeze instead of engage.
3. Lack of clarity
The brain avoids tasks that feel vague or overwhelming.
4. Perfectionism
When the standard is “do it perfectly,” the brain labels the task as unsafe or high risk.
5. Unrealistic timelines
Motivation drops when goals feel impossible to reach.
Understanding why motivation is low often helps people approach goals with more self compassion and better strategies.
Intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation
Psychology distinguishes between two types of motivation:
Intrinsic motivation
Doing something because it feels meaningful, enjoyable, or purposeful.
Intrinsic motivation is often more sustainable.
Extrinsic motivation
Doing something because of external rewards or consequences.
Extrinsic motivation can be useful short term but fades when the reward disappears.
Most people thrive with a mix of both.
For example:
- Exercising because you enjoy how you feel afterward (intrinsic)
- And because you want to improve your strength or health markers (extrinsic)
A balanced combination tends to support long term change.
How to make motivation easier to access
Based on research in habit formation, neuroscience, and behavioral psychology, several strategies reliably help motivation feel more available.
1. Make the goal smaller
Breaking a task into “the smallest possible next step” reduces overwhelm. The brain likes achievable wins.
2. Create emotional rewards
Ask: “How will I feel after doing this?”
Linking actions to emotional outcomes boosts dopamine.
3. Reduce friction
Set things up so the action is easy (clothes ready, environment prepped, decisions minimized).
4. Use identity based habits
Shifting from “I want to run” to “I am someone who moves my body daily” changes internal motivation loops.
5. Expect dips
Motivation naturally ebbs. Having structure helps carry you during low motivation phases.
6. Sleep, blood sugar, and stress regulation
The brain cannot sustain motivation when biological systems are off balance.
You can read more about Blood sugar and energy levels
Why self compassion increases motivation
Surprisingly, research shows that being harder on yourself actually reduces motivation, because it triggers stress responses that suppress dopamine and focus.
Self compassion increases motivation by:
- Allowing recovery instead of guilt spirals
- Supporting resilience
- Helping people try again rather than give up
Being kind to yourself is not letting yourself off the hook. It is a science backed way to improve long term consistency.
Motivation and your environment
One of the most underestimated factors is context. Small environmental cues shape behavior more than willpower does.
Examples:
- Leaving a notebook visible makes writing easier
- Not keeping snacks you overeat reduces friction
- Exercising becomes more consistent when your environment supports it
You do not need more willpower. You need alignment between your goals and your environment.
Motivation and long term wellbeing
Motivation is not about constant drive or dramatic transformations. It is about understanding your patterns, reducing friction, and working with the brain rather than against it.
When motivation becomes:
- Less about pressure
- More about clarity
- Less about perfection
- More about progress
Even small changes start to feel possible.
Summary
- Motivation naturally rises and falls, and this is normal.
- Dopamine drives anticipation and progress, not perfection.
- Action often creates motivation, not the other way around.
- Burnout, stress, and unclear goals commonly reduce motivation.
- Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation both matter.
- Strategies like small steps, reduced friction, and identity based habits make motivation easier.
- Self compassion strengthens long term consistency.
- Environment shapes behavior more than willpower.
With understanding and supportive structure, motivation becomes much less mysterious and much more manageable.
Sources and further reading
Motivation and reward / dopamine
- “Motivation, reward, and dopamine” — National Institutes of Health (overview of how dopamine relates to reward anticipation)
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK535416/
Action precedes motivation / habit science
- “Small steps in behavior change” — Harvard Health Publishing (discusses research around action and habit formation)
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/tiny-changes-help-build-better-habits
Intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation
- “Self-determination theory: Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation” — Verywell Mind (summarizing research)
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-self-determination-theory-2795387
Burnout and resilience
- “Burnout: An overview” — World Health Organization (WHO)
https://www.who.int/mental_health/evidence/burn-out/en/
Self compassion and motivation
- “Self-compassion and psychological wellbeing” — Frontiers in Psychology (meta-analysis)
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2018.00720/full
Environment and behavior
- “How environment influences behavior” — American Psychological Association (APA)
https://www.apa.org/education/k12/environment-behavior




